Monday, May 31, 2010

5 Months Home!

Nina has been home for 5 months! I cannot believe how fast the time goes by, and the little girl that arrived in our home is not the same little girl today! All areas of development have improved and it is hard to believe that just a few months ago there was so much she could not do. Things that now she can do with great ease.

Right now Nina is all about family. I think she is putting together in her head how she belongs with us. Many times she makes sure to say everyone's name stressing out our family name. "Daddy Stumbo, Mommy Stumbo, Ellie Stumbo, Nichole Stumbo and Nina Stumbo. We are a family, a Stumbo family!"

One of our favorite things right now is that Nina often says to us, "I am a happy girl!" many times she says it while bouncing on her legs and clapping her hands. Sometimes, the statement catches us in the most unexpected times and the significance of it touches our hearts deeply. Like being held by daddy while watching a show, and all of a sudden she turns to him and with her sweet, soft voice she will say, "Daddy, I am a happy girl."

She also talks about loving her family (and yes, she even includes the fact that she loves Nina too.) Many times she will come into the rooms we are in just to say, "Mommy, I love you!" She blows a kiss and goes back to whatever she was doing before.

The significance of family. A little girl that knew nothing about the love of a family is not basking in it. Her life would be so different today had we not adopted her. Tied down in a crib, or if lucky, still at the orphanage, hanging on by the day.

But she is loved. She has a family. She belongs. She is a Stumbo.

Here is a little video I took of her the other day. We had just gotten a book that we are sending to the family that is adopting Nina's best friend from the orphanage. We made this book for the orphanage to have, so they can see a little bit about Nina's new life. In the book we included pictures of our time in Ukraine, of her favorite worker, as well as the doctor. At the beginning of the video, Nina was trying to say that she had looked at a book of pictures and that she had seen a picture of her and her worker. She is saying the worker's name.


  1. WOW! I love that. I can't get over her English! She seems so happy! What a wonderful video. I can't wait to make one of Oksana just like it :).

  2. I am in awe at how well her English is!! Wow!! She seems so happy!! I am beyond thrilled that everyone seems to be settling in. I have been in love with her since I first stumbled on to your blog and love to watch her progression.

  3. Anonymous10:37 PM

    you're amazing! an inspiration!! Nina's smile tells everything! i've been following your story and it has truely amazed me! thanks God for wonderful people like you!
    hugs from ana

  4. This is just so freaking sweet. This does nothing to help my baby fever! <3

  5. It is wonderful to hear of how great Nina (& your other girls) are doing. You are a wonderful Mommy!! I found your blog through Gabe's Facebook :)- & I am so glad I did. I just love hearing about your family.


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