Wednesday, July 23, 2008
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
I also took some pictures of Ellie on our loooong trip to Wyoming. Most of them she is making silly faces, but I actually caught a few where she is simply beautiful and sweet.
She is however, very silly. It is hard not to crush her excitement at times, like when it is time to go to bed and we need to stop. Sigh. I suppose she is too much like her mother :)I cherish the times when she still wants to cuddle and be mommy's little girl.
There is website called http://www.reecessrainbow.com/. It is an adoption site for children with Down syndrome. There is a section called, "Why Down Syndrome?"
Live in awe of their perpetual innocence, their inability to comprehend evil, & their God-given gift to INSPIRE THE WORLD"
Andy enjoyed fishing at the Big Horn Mountains of Wyoming. I believe the lake was called "lost Lake." He got the biggest catch of the day!!!
We were supposed to look sweet in this picture, but do you know Andy?
I love this picture of Lindsey (Our babysitter extraordinaire if you were wondering).
So, where is this trail?
I also love this picture, as the kids were looking at the "Raging River of death." It was pretty spectacular.
Monday, July 7, 2008
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
Special Blessings, Special Vocabulary
by Kimberlee Kadar-Kallen
Kimberlee Kadar-Kallen is mother to Eliza, born with Down syndrome and AVSD. Eliza spent her first months in heart failure until her heart repair. But now at almost four years of age, she is thriving as a homeschooled child alongside her six siblings. Kimberlee blogs at Pondered in My Heart.
When a family first receives the news that they may have a child with Down syndrome, they are likely to encounter some new vocabulary not previously part of their everyday lexicon. Over time these new, unfamiliar words lose their cumbersome feel and become a comfortable part of everyday life, much like an unyielding new pair of shoes softens and grows familiar. I thought I would explain some of these terms and what they have come to mean for our family.
Nuchal fold - This is the delicious area of skin at the back of the neck that is extra thick and soft and smooshy in children with Down syndrome and therefore the perfect place to snuggle, nuzzle, bury-your-nose-in and cuddle your sweet baby. Michael says it's his favorite spot to kiss Eliza.
Very true! If you have seen me gobble up Nichole, you know it is without a doubt a favorite spot!
Trisomy 21 - Trisomy means there are three copies of each chromosome instead of two, and it has been discovered that cuteness is located on the 21 st chromosome. Be prepared for unprecedented levels of cuteness, even if you have many other children who you think are cute.
Ellie is very cute! She was the cutest baby...until Nichole. There is definitely something different, something like love, gentleness, kindness, goodness...an extra portion of God that comes along with the extra chromosome.
Hypotonia - Sometimes referred to as poor muscle tone, what this really means is that all of Baby is super soft and cuddly. Synonyms for this condition are smoosh-ball, teddy-bear, snuggle-puss, honey-love, and so forth. Squeezing and hugging Baby is a frequent and irresistible temptation.
Short stature - Children with Down syndrome are typically short in stature due in part to short limbs. This just means parents and other loved ones will have abundant opportunity for exercise in the form of deep knee bends.
I just think it is cute! And let's face it, I am not that tall to start with, so my genes are not helping in this area.
Speech therapists- This is another word for siblings. These are the children who will spend countless hours teaching your child with Down syndrome to talk and speak clearly. They will mimic sounds, invent oral exercises, play word games, demonstrate proper mouth movements, repeat key phrases, practice letters and numbers and loads more ad infinitum. Some therapists have unique methods such as requiring the client to say, 'Guard, release the faun!' in order to have the car sear unbuckled or repeating unusual words like 'gastrovascular', but you have to just put up with their quirks.
Have you met Ellie? She is everyone's speech therapist!
Developmental delays - What this really means is that for once you don't have to say, 'Oh, they grow up so fast!' The delight of babyhood and toddlerhood is prolonged and there are ever so many more moments of it to savor. Baby will grow and learn in a slow and gentle manner and there will be plenty of opportunities to practice cheerleading along the way. You will also marvel and appreciate each little milestone that you may have taken for granted in all of your other children.
Yes, yes, yes!
Congenital heart defect - This is really one of several code phrases for an intensive training course in learning the true meaning of Jesus, I trust in you. This training involves great spiritual growth and opportunity for deepening and greatly magnifying one's prayer life. There may even be a special retreat involved where one can really progress in prayer. The special code term 'open-heart surgery' is often used for this unique retreat that takes place in a hospital.
The greatest blessing. Makes me think of what our friends, the Glandon family commented to me at some point, "Everyone should have a person with Down syndrome in their family."
Special needs child - All children are special and all children have needs. Both of these facts can sometimes be taken for granted, but that is less likely with special needs parenting. This child will force you to see things more closely to the way God sees things, which is very, very contrary to the way the world sees things. The 'special needs child' instantly and unequivocally obliterates the blather of the world's view of life. Each and every life is a precious gift from His hand, of equal value in His sight, and the special child makes that especially clear, every moment of every day.
(Italics are my personal comments)